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Your Relationship Is Ready to Rise
For the woman who’s doing the work
- evolving on her own journey —
yet feels her relationship hasn’t quite caught up.
You’ve taken radical responsibility for your growth and embodied what it means to be resourced, healed, and stepping into leadership.
Now it’s time to bring that same devotion home - to create a relationship that feels safe, sacred, and sovereign.
DEEPER is a journey for resourced women who are ready to recalibrate their relationships - to become the invitation for their partner's growth and create a sanctuary that nourishes you - together.
the waitlist is open.
Be the first to know when enrollment opens, receive early-access bonuses, and start preparing for your next evolution in partnership.
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"This shit is GOLD!"
"I had hit a wall and knew there was a better way to BE MYSELF and BE TOGETHER in my marriage. DEEPER is better than any couples therapist we've been to because she gets right to it!"
"In therapy, I think we were afraid to get right to it - we didn't KNOW how to express our needs, wishes & hopes in a manner that was the best use of our time. Emily's ability to KNOW the how/what/ nuts & bolts of communication within a marriage is delightful! She offers relatable examples and easy action items to implement. Super impressed, just sign up!"
- Jen
i know what it's like
Even though we've been together for 22 years, I spent the majority of that time feeling exhausted - like I was the only one who was making an effort to connect more deeply, to grow together as a couple. I had a vision of what our relationship could be, but no matter what I tried... including three different couples therapists and years of 12-step work - nothing changed.
We both were making progress on our personal journeys, but I kept wondering when the "work" was going to seep into our relationship. I desperately longed to be able to talk with my husband, to share the deeper parts of me and feel seen and heard. I wanted him to be my person… not just going through the day-to-day together, but on a soul level.
But every time I tried to express my desire for more... he shut down further. I didn't know how to ask him, how to invite him in without him getting defensive or believing that he wasn't good enough. Every time I tried to move closer, we'd end up farther apart.
the truth bomb that blew everything up...
I was so desperate for him to grow WITH me and build an intentional life together - that I couldn’t see how powerless I was feeling. Then one day a mentor of mine told me "If you're feeling abandoned, it's because you're abandoning yourself."
That sentence still resonates in my body today. I was abandoning myself in service of the relationship. No matter how much work I was doing in other areas of my life - growing a 6-figure business, reparenting myself through motherhood, helping other women do the work - I still couldn't OWN my new identity for fear that my relationship wouldn't be able to hold it. For as BIG as I was becoming in the world, I was staying small in my relationship.
That realization shook me awake. I knew that I could do anything I devoted myself to, and that my relationship was ready for the uplevel. For the past 9 years, I have been deep-diving into the most profound, proven strategies to build a deeper, stronger relationship... and what I want you to know is this:
it's way less complicated than it seems.
If you express your desire but all he feels is your disappointment...
If you ask for more but all he hears is that he's not enough....
Here's what I need you to understand:
You can't mother or mentor your man into growth.
🔥 He needs reason and room to rise. 🔥
“Our relationship has really shifted.”
“I see now that I - for lack of a better word - dominated him. I have not allowed him the space to show up because I didn’t know how to give that to him, and now that I do, it has been such a shift for us."
"Now that I give him that space, he has just totally changed. I can see he feels more confident, more secure, he's stepping into this whole other new person.
It feels like an incredible gift.”
- Nina
It’s one thing to follow your own path in life...
but a whole other thing to pave a path with another person... one that aligns with love, trust, and mutual growth.
Especially for a woman who've mastered growth, leadership, and self-awareness in all other areas of life,
and wants to see her partner rise to meet her, not be threatened by her growth.